The Dreaded Calorie Conversation

March 6, 2017

Many of us have grown up with the simple understanding that "less calories in, more calories out" (or a caloric deficit) is the key to weight loss. And in the most simplistic terms, sure that's correct. “One pound of fat is around 3,500 calories, and safe fat loss is one to two pounds per week.”  To lose one pound of fat per week, you'd need a 500-calorie deficit each day. True. But we are missing a key element. We are drilling this mantra into our own heads, our children's heads, the next generation's heads without presenting this basic piece of information. 

Small words now. It needs fuel (food and nutrients).  If you don't give it enough fuel, it can't work properly.  So basically, the trick is determining how much fuel your premium, luxury, fine as heck automobile of a self needs to run properly! 

First, let's talk about these pesky little calories. Calories aren't little fat bubbles that add up in your body.  Calories refer to a unit of energy - how much "energy" your body can receive what you're taking into your body. Calories aren't bad for you. Your body needs calories for energy. (But eating too many calories — and not burning enough of them off through activity — can lead to weight gain. That's where we get our pesky little mantra about calories being bad)


So how do we determine "how much fuel" our bodies need so that our machine can run without having to keep a few spare fuel cans in our trunk (or on our love handles)?

OKAY - If you tuned out above, here's where you tune back in! 

Calculating our BMR

First - we calculate our estimated BMR (Basal Metabolic Rate) or how many calories our bodies would need to run in the most relaxed sedentary mode, sleep - like temporary low power mode on your phone. This is crucial because the body burns energy ALL DAY LONG, even if you aren't doing anything. So if we are eating less than that required number, our body isn't getting enough fuel to simply exist and your machine isn't functioning properly (plus you're probably storing unnecessary fat).

So how do we do this? There are lots of different formulas but you're going to get roughly the same results. 

You need your height, weight, age (BMR tends to decrease with age), and gender. 
You can calculate for yourself using this formula:
Women: BMR= 655 + ( 4.35 x weight in pounds ) + ( 4.7 x height in inches ) - ( 4.7 x age in years )
Men: BMR = 66 + ( 6.23 x weight in pounds ) + ( 12.7 x height in inches ) - ( 6.8 x age in years)

Or this one: 
For women: BMR = 10 x weight (kg) + 6.25 x height (cm) – 5 x age (years) – 161
For men: BMR = 10 x weight (kg) + 6.25 x height (cm) – 5 x age (years) + 5

Or you can use a simple online calculator like this one or this one



Calculating Our TDEE 

Second:  Okay - so we know our BMR, or how many calories our body burns if we just rest. Now we need to know how many calories our bodies NEED! (STAY WITH ME!) We need to factor in our activity level so that we know how much energy our body is using when we are active - whether that's simply standing up to walk from our desk to the water fountain or climbing a mountain. We do this by finding our Total Daily Energy Expenditure (TDEE). TDEE is the most important bit of information available to us when trying to gain muscle or burn fat and lose weight, because it is the total number of calories we burn - so it includes sleeping, eating, moving, exercising, anything you do in your daily life. With our TDEE, we can estimate many calories to consume to burn body fat or gain (preserve) muscle. 







Or you can use a simple online calculator like this one or this one.


OKAY- HAVE YOU GOT IT!?!?! This total right here, your TDEE, is how much fuel (or how many calories) your body needs to run at this age, weight, height, and activity level without losing or gaining weight. 


So we now know how many calories our body needs to MAINTAIN itself. We've all heard the word "maintain" if we've spent any time around weight loss. It means remaining the same.  So what changes have to be made for the body to stop "maintaining" itself and start changing? In the simplest terms, we need to give it less calories if we're trying to lose weight and more calories if we're trying to gain it. 

Think of it like money in your wallet - make less money, save less money. But instead of fat pockets of bills, this is fat pockets of .... well fat. 


Now we can achieve our goals through calorie manipulation using exercise or nutrition.  Your best bet is to incorporate both through proper diet and exercise. 


As a basic rule, I advocate eating about 500 calories less than your TDEE. That number usually tends to avoid tearing up lean muscle while losing fat and keeps our bodies running pretty smoothly. This requires that you be very honest with yourself about your caloric intake.  Weighing your food is your best friend. NO... Tracking your food is your best friend.  Weighing your food is your best friend's attractive sibling...   

This you will hear CONSTANTLY.  There are 3500 calories in a pound of fat, so at 500 calories a day you should lose a pound in a week.  If you've upped your activity level in the gym, you'll likely see a little more action.  You'll probably see a bigger drop right off the bat due to water weight etc., but don't be discouraged if things slow to one or two pounds a week. That's the way it should be.


I know what you're thinking.... ONE )(*$#@($ pound? One pound to avoid 7 days of temptation and drag my butt to the gym for a whole week?  Yup.  But it'll pay off. 








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